“You either get it or you don’t” used to be the #1 rule of, well, anything. Now, I think, it has been replaced with “Do you want to get it?”

There is a story about the hockey coach who once asked a talented player, “Son, I can’t figure out whether you’re stupid or apathetic.” To which the player replied, “I don’t know and I don’t care.”

Want to make the effort. It will be worth it in the long run.